Post by M~Apollo on Oct 15, 2017 23:42:54 GMT
Tips for readers and sitters
It can be difficult to place a spirit link with a sitter in the chat rooms. Some mediums both online and off site have no idea who the message recipient may be and thus have to offer the information to everybody in the room and whittle it down from those who respond so they can place the sitter. This can be time consuming, and often a strong personality in the room is determined to have a message and they may pull it from the correct recipient just by sheer willpower.
When trying to establish the sitter when reading on the internet one of the greatest barriers is people’s enthusiasm and desire to be a message recipient, and this is perfectly understandable. Every person can understand at least 33% of every message. This has been scientifically documented. A strong, insistent, personality can take the message from the correct recipient. Some individuals try and claim every read going. Often they answer “No” to the original statements made and then later try and make it fit. This is wrong and can take the reading away from the correct sitter.
We ask that that sitters put them self in the place of other members that the message may relate to and do not try to hog reads, we do not wish to see the true sitter deprived of contact with their loved ones in spirit.
Sitters and would be sitters should not interrupt the medium by asking questions, this is off putting and can break the flow and lessen the mediums link. Also sitters should not input information relating to the spirit communicator, the medium does not need feeding. Sitters should only respond with yes, no, or possibly.
Feedback may be offered at the end of the reading, but do not offer too much feedback as you may be relating information that could be used in a future reading.
