Kagome
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Post by Kagome on Feb 2, 2018 1:03:18 GMT
I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, I love korean pop music. I found out from a friend of mine that a member of a kpop group I loved had passed away. When I went to investigate into it I learned he took his own life. Since I learned of it that day I just cried cried and cried and it wasn't because of the music, I literally felt his pain his hurt his suffering. It just was overall painful for me and it doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense because I never this guy or saw him in person. So why do I feel like I do? For a moment I saw him in my head waving to me smiling telling me hes okay (not talking but the movement). So its been on my mind I just wanted some feedback its like whats going on with me.
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cindra
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Post by cindra on Feb 6, 2018 12:06:18 GMT
Hi Kagome. It might be a deja vu moment of sorts, but not so much with places, but more with people. I think it is empathy-linked, therefore, I'd say. Ask for the pain to lift and just remember tears are healing as well, releasing the emotion. Perhaps its a soul bond link on an empathy connection that you feel with his soul/spirit. And the empathy side of it also will keep you updated on the music industry. I get that when something has happened and I start hearing different pieces of music. I know it is empathy-linked that keeps me posted. A very strong link & connection in terms of energy can maybe help another person who you don't know so very well even feel like family, not necessarily blood family, but more spirit/soul family. Hope this is helpful  |
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Kagome
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Post by Kagome on Feb 7, 2018 19:04:52 GMT
Hi thank you for your response, I actually felt like I was going crazy I love kpop have been listening to it for years. He was the main member in the group Shinee I really didn't know any of them like names, etc. So when one of my friends who's a fan posted about it I was in shock not understanding what was happening. Once it was official of his passing and how, the why came out later by a letter he wrote wanting it to be shared for the fans. Saw the actual funeral procession (carrying the coffin to the hearse to bring to the church), I was crying sobbing. As days went on and the information I typed previously, I learned more what happened it was like I was right with him feeling what he felt and it made me cry and hurt more and more. So I'm wondering how is it possible for me to be able to feel like I'm expressing? Can empathy do that sort of thing? Also, when I try to listen to his music to keep him alive sort of speak its very hard and sad like I can feel his feelings
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Post by cindra on Feb 7, 2018 19:17:28 GMT
Hi - Music is like a universal language in itself and has the workings of connecting to Spirit in more ways than one.
I also think this is definitely empathy-related, the fact that you were crying means tears are healing. you are shedding emotions through listening to his music. You know how some singers pour their emotions via singing a song? Its perhaps the same with this. Anything is indeed possible.
Empathy can pick up on all sorts of emotions, so yes, its highly possible. The key to deal with empathy is just to ask for it to lift via positive intention and also focus on grounding and protection. I'd also suggest to talk to the members in chat to help you with this later tonight if you get the chance to go in when you can!
I also think that it is safe to say the key to remember that he is in Spirit now, so may his music still live on but once that emotion has lifted, may you continue to listen to his music is a positive way and shift your perception so that you can listen to his music (without the emotion which you'd be picking up via empathy settling in).
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Kagome
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Post by Kagome on Feb 8, 2018 21:21:39 GMT
Thank you again kindly for responding, I had to share what I experienced because I never felt the way I did at that moment. I hope I don't sound crazy but as I knew what happened and it currently going on, it was like I was there (does that make sense?) I do feel better overall I almost feel at peace I like to hope he is at peace. I just find it interesting how I could feel him like I did. I don't understand empathy too much is there such thing as being strong empath? or how does that work?
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